fix daemon-not-connected race on startup

The socket-loopback DaemonClient (T-127) raced the UI on first launch:
panels queried before the socket finished connecting and cached a
"daemon not connected" error, and the Claude pane's spawn gate tripped,
leaving an empty terminal. Three fixes in the startup/connection path:

- DaemonClient.request() now waits briefly (5s) for an in-flight
  connection instead of failing instantly, gated on _started so a
  never-started client still fails fast. start() sets _started
  synchronously so the gate is armed before the UI builds.
- swapIpcServer reuses the live server when the opened project matches
  the workspace it already serves, instead of tearing it down — the
  project-open flow fired right as the Claude pane spawned, dropping
  the connection mid-spawn.
- _connect bails if already connected, so start() arming the reconnect
  loop and swapIpcServer's reconnectAt can't open a second socket
  (which had been double-delivering events).

This whole orchestration had no automated coverage — integration tests
stub a FakeDaemonClient. Adds a real wait-then-connect client test.

Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

lib/kernel/src/ipc/client.dart

@@ -26,26 +26,39 @@ class DaemonClient extends ChangeNotifier {
   Socket? _socket;
   bool _connected = false;
   bool _disposed = false;
+  bool _started = false;
   Timer? _reconnectTimer;
   Duration _backoff = const Duration(milliseconds: 200);
   int _nextId = 0;
   final Map<String, Completer<IpcResponse>> _pending = {};
 
+  /// Requests that arrived before the socket was connected park here
+  /// until the connection comes up (or the wait times out).
+  final List<Completer<void>> _connectWaiters = [];
+
+  /// How long a request will wait for an in-progress connection before
+  /// giving up with a not-connected error. Covers the startup window
+  /// where the UI queries before the socket has finished connecting.
+  static const Duration _connectWait = Duration(seconds: 5);
+
   bool get isConnected => _connected;
 
   Future<void> start() async {
     _disposed = false;
+    _started = true;
     await _connect();
   }
 
   Future<void> stop() async {
     _disposed = true;
+    _started = false;
     _reconnectTimer?.cancel();
     _reconnectTimer = null;
     final s = _socket;
     _socket = null;
     await s?.close();
     _failPending('client stopped');
+    _wakeConnectWaiters();
     _setConnected(false);
   }
 
@@ -67,6 +80,7 @@ class DaemonClient extends ChangeNotifier {
     _failPending('socket path changed');
     _setConnected(false);
     _disposed = false;
+    _started = true;
     _backoff = const Duration(milliseconds: 200);
     await _connect();
   }
@@ -74,16 +88,25 @@ class DaemonClient extends ChangeNotifier {
   Future<IpcResponse> request(
     String cmd, {
     Map<String, Object?> args = const {},
-  }) {
+  }) async {
     if (!_connected || _socket == null) {
-      return Future.value(IpcResponse.err(
-        id: '',
-        error: IpcError(
-          code: IpcExitCode.toolError,
-          kind: IpcErrorKind.toolError,
-          message: 'daemon not connected',
-        ),
-      ));
+      // A connection attempt is in flight (startup or reconnect) — wait
+      // for it rather than failing instantly, so queries issued during
+      // the startup window don't get a spurious not-connected error.
+      // If the client was never started (or is disposed), fail fast.
+      if (_started && !_disposed) {
+        await _awaitConnected(_connectWait);
+      }
+      if (!_connected || _socket == null) {
+        return IpcResponse.err(
+          id: '',
+          error: IpcError(
+            code: IpcExitCode.toolError,
+            kind: IpcErrorKind.toolError,
+            message: 'daemon not connected',
+          ),
+        );
+      }
     }
     final id = '${_nextId++}';
     final completer = Completer<IpcResponse>();
@@ -93,8 +116,33 @@ class DaemonClient extends ChangeNotifier {
     return completer.future;
   }
 
+  /// Complete when the socket connects, or after [timeout] (whichever
+  /// first). Returns immediately if already connected.
+  Future<void> _awaitConnected(Duration timeout) async {
+    if (_connected) return;
+    final c = Completer<void>();
+    _connectWaiters.add(c);
+    try {
+      await c.future.timeout(timeout);
+    } on TimeoutException {
+      _connectWaiters.remove(c);
+    }
+  }
+
+  void _wakeConnectWaiters() {
+    if (_connectWaiters.isEmpty) return;
+    final waiters = List<Completer<void>>.from(_connectWaiters);
+    _connectWaiters.clear();
+    for (final c in waiters) {
+      if (!c.isCompleted) c.complete();
+    }
+  }
+
   Future<void> _connect() async {
-    if (_disposed) return;
+    // Already connected? Don't open a second socket. Guards against
+    // racing connect attempts (e.g. start() arming the reconnect loop
+    // while swapIpcServer's reconnectAt connects on first boot).
+    if (_disposed || _connected) return;
     try {
       final addr = InternetAddress(_socketPath, type: InternetAddressType.unix);
       final socket = await Socket.connect(addr, 0);
@@ -173,6 +221,10 @@ class DaemonClient extends ChangeNotifier {
   void _setConnected(bool v) {
     if (_connected == v) return;
     _connected = v;
+    // Release any requests parked waiting for the connection — on a
+    // successful connect they proceed to send; this runs before the
+    // dispose guard so a connect always wakes them.
+    if (v) _wakeConnectWaiters();
     // Skip side-effects (event emit + notifyListeners) after dispose —
     // the socket stream's onDone can fire post-dispose and would
     // otherwise hit ChangeNotifier's "used after disposed" assert.
@@ -184,10 +236,12 @@ class DaemonClient extends ChangeNotifier {
   @override
   void dispose() {
     _disposed = true;
+    _started = false;
     _reconnectTimer?.cancel();
     unawaited(_socket?.close());
     _socket = null;
     _failPending('client disposed');
+    _wakeConnectWaiters();
     super.dispose();
   }
 }