chore: adopt Dart 3.9 toolchain — honest floor + tall-style reformat (T-353)

Raise the declared minimums in pubspec.yaml to what our deps already
require: Flutter >=3.35.0 / Dart >=3.9.0 (was 3.19.0 / 3.5.0). alchemist
0.12 needs Flutter 3.32; Dart 3.9 first ships in Flutter 3.35, so 3.35 is
the binding floor. Pin the exact build toolchain in .fvmrc (Flutter
3.44.1).

Moving to the Dart 3.9 language level switches `dart format` to the new
"tall" style and enables two new lints. This commit is the resulting
mechanical churn, isolated from any behaviour change:
  - whole-tree `dart format` reformat (tall style)
  - `dart fix` for unnecessary_underscores + use_null_aware_elements

No runtime behaviour change; `make test` green.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

test/ipc/command_schema_test.dart

@@ -109,7 +109,10 @@ void main() {
   group('normalize (argv shape → named args)', () {
     const schema = CommandSchema(
       positional: ['slot'],
-      args: {'slot': ArgSpec(), 'to': ArgSpec(type: ArgType.number)},
+      args: {
+        'slot': ArgSpec(),
+        'to': ArgSpec(type: ArgType.number),
+      },
     );
 
     test('positional[i] maps to the i-th declared name', () {