chore: adopt Dart 3.9 toolchain — honest floor + tall-style reformat (T-353)

Raise the declared minimums in pubspec.yaml to what our deps already
require: Flutter >=3.35.0 / Dart >=3.9.0 (was 3.19.0 / 3.5.0). alchemist
0.12 needs Flutter 3.32; Dart 3.9 first ships in Flutter 3.35, so 3.35 is
the binding floor. Pin the exact build toolchain in .fvmrc (Flutter
3.44.1).

Moving to the Dart 3.9 language level switches `dart format` to the new
"tall" style and enables two new lints. This commit is the resulting
mechanical churn, isolated from any behaviour change:
  - whole-tree `dart format` reformat (tall style)
  - `dart fix` for unnecessary_underscores + use_null_aware_elements

No runtime behaviour change; `make test` green.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

lib/widgets/src/clide_column_hat.dart

@@ -117,11 +117,7 @@ class _WinButton extends StatelessWidget {
         height: hatHeight,
         color: hovered ? hoverBg : null,
         alignment: Alignment.center,
-        child: ClideIcon(
-          icon,
-          size: 14,
-          color: hovered && isClose ? tokens.windowControlCloseHoverForeground : tokens.globalTextMuted,
-        ),
+        child: ClideIcon(icon, size: 14, color: hovered && isClose ? tokens.windowControlCloseHoverForeground : tokens.globalTextMuted),
       ),
     );
   }